10 Sex Hacks to Take Your Sex Life to the Next Level

Are you looking for ways to take your bedroom activities to the next level? Sex hacks can help! From simple tips to more advanced techniques, sex hacks are a great way to explore new ideas and improve your sex life.

Here are 10 incredible sex hacks that will help you elevate your sex life:

1. Wear socks

Wearing socks increases blood flow to your genitals which increases the likelihood of orgasm and also improves orgasm quality. It doesn’t seem like the sexiest thing you can do, but worth a try. (International Review of Neurobiology by Professor Gert Holstege, the chairman of the center for uro-neurology at the University of Groningen in the Netherlands).

2. Set the Mood / Relax

This seems super obvious, but too often it’s overlooked. You don’t have to do this every time, but try switching it up and setting the mood by dimming the lights and maintaining eye contact. Massages are super dependable for promoting relaxation and opening you both up for sexual intimacy.

3. Try Edging

I wrote about this here, but basically, you are bringing yourself to the edge of climax and then refusing to go there. Doing this repeatedly until you finally decide to release, is guaranteed to give you one of the most explosive orgasms you ever experienced.

4. Discover Kinks

Typically thought of as any sexual activity that falls outside of what society traditionally deems as “acceptable”, trying out kinks that you and your partner feel comfortable with, can take your sex game to a whole other level. Having sex in the same tired position every night can get boring quickly. Use Google and research some kinks that you both would be open to exploring. A few that I personally like are: Japanese bondage, role play, and dominance.

5. Try a new position

There are tons of sex positions to try that are essentially a variation of a core group of sex positions so you don’t need to stick with missionary. Branch out and see what positions bring you and your partner the most pleasure. Usually, the best position for women to have an orgasm is one where there is direct clitoral stimulation.

6. Schedule sex regularly

I’ve heard this in the past and always felt like it was so silly. After all, most sexual people enjoy sex, so it isn’t something that needs to be penciled in like a chore. However, when you get into the routine of a relationship and get out of the courting/dating/full of passion stage, sometimes life gets in the way. Stay connected by making your sex life a priority and do it at the frequency that satisfies you and your partner.

7. Invest more in foreplay

The average woman needs sexual arousal to get in the mood. The more aroused, the wetter she gets, the better the sex. Being kissed, licked, stroked, and tantalized to the point of begging to be penetrated is an ideal way to start a sex session. Take the time to do what is necessary so that you both enjoy your time together.

8. Orgasm Doesn’t Have to Be the Final Destination

I’ve had amazing sex and didn’t cum at the end. The fact that I didn’t have an orgasm did not detract from the experience. Sometimes too much emphasis and focus on reaching your climax, can take away from your sexual experience, so try staying out of your head and just enjoy the intimate connection. Trust, the orgasm will cum.

9. Lube, Lube, Lube

The wetter, the better, as mentioned in the foreplay tip. Dry sex is not fun and can lead to injury. Who wants a friction burn or for their most intimate parts to feel like sandpaper? If you are getting wet enough on your own, it’s ok to add as much lube as needed. It will make the experience infinitely better.

10. Speak up!

There is no reason you should not have agency over your sexual encounters. If something is not working for you, speak up. If you want something, state that. I never hesitate to say “fuck me” “harder” or “right there”. It takes a while for two people to get in sync sexually, and there is no reason your partner should just figure out on their own what you like, why not help out? You can also ask your partner what they like. “Do you like that?” “Is this ok?” Communication during sex can take things to another level of intimacy.

Finding strategies that build self-assurance in the bedroom, bring partners closer together and make sex more pleasurable are worth investing your time into.